One of my favorite movies is He’s Just Not That Into You. I learned a valuable lesson when I watched this movie for the first time many years ago. When I was younger I used to overanalyze why things didn’t work out with someone that I was dating. I used to wonder if it was me, if it was something that I did or if there was anything that I could do to change the outcome, but then I realized that it was just very simple, he just wasn’t that into me.
In my past I would meet guys that seemed interested, but would slowly stop calling and making it seem like their life was just so busy or he had a lot on his mind. I use to believe that they were too busy, but I learned that if a man wants to call you or spend time with you, he will. He is not going to be too busy or too anything to pick up the phone and call and want to spend time with you. A man saying he is too busy is just a way to say he is not that into you without actually having to say the words.