My Love Starts at 9 PM
Someone once told me that my love starts at 9 PM. This person told me this because every time we would set a time to meet for dinner or even talk on the phone, I would say the best time for me is 9 PM. This is because I normally don’t get off of work…
How to Be Single
I have spent more of my life single then in a relationship and most of my friends know this. There are times when my newly single girlfriends have come to me and ask ‘How to be single?’. Of course I am always willing to help my friends, but I just think that is a strange…
Calm and Quiet
When I was young, I use to be extremely shy. I was always quiet, afraid to speak my mind and I was always agreeable because I was worried about not being liked. Now, that I am 37 years old, I embrace who I am. I no longer consider myself as shy, but I do consider…
He’s Just Not That Into You
One of my favorite movies is He’s Just Not That Into You. I learned a valuable lesson when I watched this movie for the first time many years ago. When I was younger I used to overanalyze why things didn’t work out with someone that I was dating. I used to wonder if it was…
I Hate to Ask
One of the things that irritates me is when someone says ‘I hate to ask, but….’. The reason this bothers me is because if you hate to ask, then don’t. If you are going to ask me a question, then you don’t hate to ask because you just wouldn’t. I am very black and white…
I Don’t Have Anybody Else To Go With
There have been several times when people have invited me places and said that they didn’t have anybody else to go with. I wonder if they hear themselves or realize how that sounds. This can be a good thing or a bad thing. Sometimes, this can be a start of a new friendship. A person…
I was going to invite you, but I didn’t know if you wanted to come
When someone says to me “I was going to invite you, but I didn’t know if you wanted to come”, the first thought that comes to my head is ‘Isn’t that what invites are for?’. The purpose of inviting someone is to find out if they want to come. When people say this to me,…
The Power Of The Word No
A few of my friends always tell me that I taught them the power of the word No. Two of them in particular have told me that they have been in situations in which they thought about how I would respond and have even came to me for advise on how to tell someone no…
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